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06-16-2007, 02:46 PM
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| Where Am I ? Join Date: Mar 2007
Bike: '02 SV650S
Location: Springfield, MO
Posts: 46
|  Dating a pregnant woman??
I'm not sure how to start this little story, so here it goes... I met this girl a little before Christmas of this past year. She had a boyfriend at the time so I got to know her over the next month or so on a friendly basis. It turned out that we had a lot in common and hit it off really well. By the first of Febuary she had left the guy she was with and came to be with me. Within two weeks of this happening she comes up pregnant... The timing of it all leads to the father being the ex and not myself (I think so anyway...), so after days and days of her crying non-stop she decided that under the new circumstances that she should try and stick it out with the ex. Well to make a long story shorter they are still together and captain dill hole is still treating her like crap. It's almost as if it makes him feel like more of a man to make her cry, which pisses me off to no end  She still calls me about everyday, comes to visit etc. It's hard because I really like this girl, but I don't really know how to handle a situation like this. I'm 24 so I'm kinda getting to the point where more and more women that I meet are single with young children, but I have yet to jump that gap and get involved with one because in reality I'm kinda dating two people.What do you do in a situation like this? Ignore the girl entirely, more or less take myself out of the picture all together? I don't wana split up people, especially ones that are going to have a baby in the near future. I just have a bad feeling about this guy (don't know what it is exactly), and it isn't in my nature to just sit by and let things happen to people I care about. Sorry if my rambling doesn't make alot of sense, its hard to type out whats going through my head. Just hopeing some of you that have had more years to experience life can give me some insight and opinions. |
