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S2Design · 03-12-2007, 01:08 PM

Sounds like one of favorite country songs:

"My girlfriend ran off with my best friend and I sure do miss him."

MOTOHOLIC! · 03-12-2007, 02:37 PM

You know that if she cheated on you once, she'll do it again without a minute's hesitation. I'd dump her if I were you. She probably doesn't even know what true love is. I've seen a lotta' girls that go after the looks. My best friend has an ex-girlfriend...she went after his best friend, too. Sounds a lot like your case, bud.

Ext1jdh · 03-12-2007, 02:47 PM

So here's the sheezy...I'm out with this girl, we're kinda seeing each other but its nothing serious. We just meet up occasionally so I can tap it. Well, you see, she's my best friend's girl. He's really into BMW motorcycles. So anyway we're out at the store after a couple hours at the local Red Roof Inn and we gotta get some "Supplies" before we go back. You know, the 144 count box of Trojans - for the afternoon. You wouldn't believe it, but my best friend shows up at the store! I'm not sure if he saw us or not. Well, later on he ended up asking his girl and I if we were at the grocery store. Of course we denied it, I mean, she's got a pretty good deal goin. He makes her dinner, and then I get the reward.

HAMMERPETE · 03-12-2007, 03:02 PM

oh man this is killing me.
Just wondering..do either of them have a hot sister or a MILF. Tag it..only get caught taggin it after you know it was them for sure.

themeatmanlandry · 03-12-2007, 03:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ext1jdh

So here's the sheezy...I'm out with this girl, we're kinda seeing each other but its nothing serious. We just meet up occasionally so I can tap it. Well, you see, she's my best friend's girl. He's really into BMW motorcycles. So anyway we're out at the store after a couple hours at the local Red Roof Inn and we gotta get some "Supplies" before we go back. You know, the 144 count box of Trojans - for the afternoon. You wouldn't believe it, but my best friend shows up at the store! I'm not sure if he saw us or not. Well, later on he ended up asking his girl and I if we were at the grocery store. Of course we denied it, I mean, she's got a pretty good deal goin. He makes her dinner, and then I get the reward.

You, sir . . . are a manslut.

< . . . and not a very good friend if you ask me!>

Ext1jdh · 03-12-2007, 06:48 PM

thank you, thank you, I'll be here all week, try the veal.

bmwfanatic · 03-12-2007, 10:43 PM

okay....so i picked her up from work this morning...so i decided ive got nothing to do...shes got nothing to do..lets go to ohio just for the hell of it,,,its only a few hours away...so i pick her up get on good ole I-75 and go south....after a while shes like whatr we doin..i go..going to ohio..she goes why... i said because you cheated on me and we need to get as far away from teh place as we can for now...so shes like howd you know...i go because i saw you! and you liked it too....she says okay...well weve been together for along time so i thought id experiment...and i was just in like like oh MY god youve got to be ******* me right.... i mean COME on....shes flippin out like take me home blah blah blah i jus told her to relax because she realyl cut me deep and she just starts bawling and crying and all this total lieing BS i can read her like a book..so shes like yeah.... i F'd him im like WHAT.... shes like yep.......twice.....

OH MY !@#$@$#@$!!!! AND IT HURT SO SO BADDDDD I COULD BELEIVE IT... I JUST WANTED TO DRIVE the car into lake erie..and sshe stopped talking... i stopped talking...for 2 hours as we drove into Ohio...for no reason at all whatsoever...and finally when i turn around and start going north..its dead silent..she says..Johnathan i love you...and she kissed me ...and i just was like in total and udder disgust.. itold her to get off of me because she was dirty and i didnt want to catch something.... because i dont know how many dirty guys shes really been with..and i made her cry.... for like 30 minutes and then she goes well guess what ... I never loved you i just told you that so you would shut up!

and i was like okay..and i WANTED to cry btu for osme reason it just wouldnt come out..and we had this fight for like another hour until we got back into michigan or northern ohio and she goes okay...just take me home and never call me again or look at me or see me and ge otut of my life... i said fine but i do love you....and she just responds...quit trying to make me smile... and jusst this was all just so real to me... i couldnt believe htis was happening to me...so finally i got her home a few hours ago.... sat in her driveway and cryed some more...so i come home and my friend is usually at my house... so there he is on y couch eating my chips .. i ask him what hes doing here and to leasve..hes like why... and i go because you screwed my ex-girlfriend and your eating my chips and breathing my oxygen and jsut leave.!!! and she like your ex-girlfriend? im like yeah..hes like oh..... and just walks out.. im like W T F... ill be okay in af ew months...it was just the age of 16 17 that cut me deep cuz htose were some awsome years....i donno why this happened it was like it was already voer and this was jsut ap usher or somethign if you know what i mean..so yeah... =-( i donno mayeb if iget mr efeelings out ill post..by the way..were u guys joking when u wanted pics..if not what kind... ill show you all what a stupid lieing **** she looks like

just oh my gosh... I JUST FEEL LIKE going ot her house and apologizing to her....and jsut making htigns up...and ican rpretend nothings happened

idonno itso nyl been alil while wihtout her.. i dont like this at all i really dont like this...

GregR1 · 03-12-2007, 10:50 PM

good god, dude, learn to write! you're 18 already, not 5.

and yeah, pics of the skank, please!

bmwfanatic · 03-12-2007, 10:58 PM

sorry...ill look for some though

GregR1 · 03-12-2007, 11:01 PM

furthermore, get over it. women play mind-games all the time, too, so her saying she loves you was just another one of them (and there's gonna be plenty more in the future). dude, she's 18! legal crumpet but surely not emotionally stable. then again, you don't seem all that stable today either, so forget her and your 'friend' and focus on something else for the next 2 weeks.

here's a few ideas:

- rebuild the engine in your car
- learn a new language
- set up an RRSP and learn how to control it
- hop on your (pedal) bike and get your endurance up to be able to do a 100-mile ride
- compare the timeline and history of these 3 american icons and enlighten us: Fender, Gibson, Harley-Davidson

ORBrit · 03-12-2007, 11:07 PM

All of us older folks - we've all been through it and we survived - and learned from it too. It seems like your world just collapsed right now and it seems like no one cares but you'll just have to take each day as it comes.

You're better off without her - why didn't you just leave her in Ohio?!
You should never have driven her home dude.
You'll get over it - it'll take time.
My advice for now - definitely DO NOT go out and buy a motorcycle in your current mental/emotional state.

Good luck.

bmwfanatic · 03-12-2007, 11:17 PM

okay...this is her with her little brother....annoying as hell...anyway im behind the camera..you guys will have plenty of time to see me...anyway yeah...this was her a while ago.. anyway ya..not too long though....

LCA_koolaid37 · 03-12-2007, 11:23 PM

Dude, if you're 18 and have been in a relationship with someone for 6 years, then you should thank her for messing around with your friend. Being in a relationship from 12 to 18 years old is completely unhealthy, in my opinion. Furthermore, she has been unfaithful to you and hasn't cared for you enough to tell of her transgressions. Kick her to the curb... then go get your head checked.

Edited to Add: The brutal facts of American life are that one should get used to infidelity. From the statistics my Psychology professor gave me, the infidelity rate in America is about 50% and the demographic with the greatest risk to be unfaithful is young, newly wed females.

GregR1 · 03-12-2007, 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bmwfanatic

okay...this is her .....

i'd hit it.

eh, your friend is likely not the only one hittin' that. she only admitted to THAT one because you actually caught them. imagine the other guys she meets up with at 'their place' directly.

go vomit, then work on those tasks i gave ya.

bmwfanatic · 03-12-2007, 11:28 PM

well lots of time to mes around now....lots of time ...im watching borat and laughing my balls off though... i know im young and stupid??but what can i do?just live and learn..welll ya..

GregR1 · 03-12-2007, 11:28 PM

go watch "Harley Davidson And The Marlboro Man"

bmwfanatic · 03-12-2007, 11:32 PM

haha okay..donno if ur serious but if you are..il check it out

GregR1 · 03-12-2007, 11:32 PM

"My old man used to tell me before he left this s hitty world
Never chase buses or women - you always get left behind"

- The Marlboro Man

bmwfanatic · 03-12-2007, 11:34 PM

HAHAHAHA thats awsome

themeatmanlandry · 03-13-2007, 07:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bmwfanatic

okay...this is her with her little brother....annoying as hell...anyway im behind the camera..you guys will have plenty of time to see me...anyway yeah...this was her a while ago.. anyway ya..not too long though....

Dude, you gotta' keep hittin' that. With her setting precedent for infidelity, I'd definitely hit that and anything else that I could get my hands on. I mean, WTF is she going to say, "You cheated on me"? You're answer could be the EXACT one she gave you . . . what can she say?

03-12-2007, 01:08 PM	#41 (permalink)
S2Design Member Investigator Join Date: Oct 2005 Bike: '03 Santa Cruz Location: Mt. Dora, FL Posts: 1,025	Sounds like one of favorite country songs: "My girlfriend ran off with my best friend and I sure do miss him." __________________ "In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends." John Churton Collins

03-12-2007, 02:37 PM	#42 (permalink)
MOTOHOLIC! Welcome Wagon Join Date: Sep 2006 Bike: don't have one Location: Eastern Kentucky Posts: 2,071	You know that if she cheated on you once, she'll do it again without a minute's hesitation. I'd dump her if I were you. She probably doesn't even know what true love is. I've seen a lotta' girls that go after the looks. My best friend has an ex-girlfriend...she went after his best friend, too. Sounds a lot like your case, bud. __________________ One person with commitment is worth a hundred who have only an interest.

03-12-2007, 02:47 PM	#43 (permalink)
Ext1jdh Top Gear ! Full Throttle! Join Date: Apr 2005 Bike: Sold Location: Elgin, IL, US Posts: 5,396	So here's the sheezy...I'm out with this girl, we're kinda seeing each other but its nothing serious. We just meet up occasionally so I can tap it. Well, you see, she's my best friend's girl. He's really into BMW motorcycles. So anyway we're out at the store after a couple hours at the local Red Roof Inn and we gotta get some "Supplies" before we go back. You know, the 144 count box of Trojans - for the afternoon. You wouldn't believe it, but my best friend shows up at the store! I'm not sure if he saw us or not. Well, later on he ended up asking his girl and I if we were at the grocery store. Of course we denied it, I mean, she's got a pretty good deal goin. He makes her dinner, and then I get the reward. __________________ I am lurking. I am likely to be eaten by a grue.

03-12-2007, 03:02 PM	#44 (permalink)
HAMMERPETE Refrigerator Magnet Test Engineer Join Date: Oct 2005 Bike: 2005 HAMMER Location: SOCAL %%%%%ES Posts: 3,551	oh man this is killing me. Just wondering..do either of them have a hot sister or a MILF. Tag it..only get caught taggin it after you know it was them for sure. __________________ Music pick of the Week(Timbo started it) Rare Earth http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZsppOw2Mxk "There's not a whole lot ways this can go right" - Johnny Knoxsville "I did something in a previous life that must have been spectacularly good, because I'm getting paid in this life just magnificently, more than one would dare imagine or hope for." - RIP George Carlin. Life's Journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, But rather to skid in side ways, totally worn out shouting HOLYSHI$T What A RIDE!!

03-12-2007, 06:48 PM	#46 (permalink)
Ext1jdh Top Gear ! Full Throttle! Join Date: Apr 2005 Bike: Sold Location: Elgin, IL, US Posts: 5,396	thank you, thank you, I'll be here all week, try the veal. __________________ I am lurking. I am likely to be eaten by a grue.

03-12-2007, 10:43 PM	#47 (permalink)
bmwfanatic In Training Join Date: Mar 2007 Bike: Im working on a bike Location: i live in michigan...the land of lakes..no great lake state... thats it.. Posts: 137	okay....so i picked her up from work this morning...so i decided ive got nothing to do...shes got nothing to do..lets go to ohio just for the hell of it,,,its only a few hours away...so i pick her up get on good ole I-75 and go south....after a while shes like whatr we doin..i go..going to ohio..she goes why... i said because you cheated on me and we need to get as far away from teh place as we can for now...so shes like howd you know...i go because i saw you! and you liked it too....she says okay...well weve been together for along time so i thought id experiment...and i was just in like like oh MY god youve got to be ***** me right.... i mean COME on....shes flippin out like take me home blah blah blah i jus told her to relax because she realyl cut me deep and she just starts bawling and crying and all this total lieing BS i can read her like a book..so shes like yeah.... i F'd him im like WHAT.... shes like yep.......twice..... OH MY !@#$@$#@$!!!! AND IT HURT SO SO BADDDDD I COULD BELEIVE IT... I JUST WANTED TO DRIVE the car into lake erie..and sshe stopped talking... i stopped talking...for 2 hours as we drove into Ohio...for no reason at all whatsoever...and finally when i turn around and start going north..its dead silent..she says..Johnathan i love you...and she kissed me ...and i just was like in total and udder disgust.. itold her to get off of me because she was dirty and i didnt want to catch something.... because i dont know how many dirty guys shes really been with..and i made her cry.... for like 30 minutes and then she goes well guess what ... I never loved you i just told you that so you would shut up! and i was like okay..and i WANTED to cry btu for osme reason it just wouldnt come out..and we had this fight for like another hour until we got back into michigan or northern ohio and she goes okay...just take me home and never call me again or look at me or see me and ge otut of my life... i said fine but i do love you....and she just responds...quit trying to make me smile... and jusst this was all just so real to me... i couldnt believe htis was happening to me...so finally i got her home a few hours ago.... sat in her driveway and cryed some more...so i come home and my friend is usually at my house... so there he is on y couch eating my chips .. i ask him what hes doing here and to leasve..hes like why... and i go because you screwed my ex-girlfriend and your eating my chips and breathing my oxygen and jsut leave.!!! and she like your ex-girlfriend? im like yeah..hes like oh..... and just walks out.. im like W T F... ill be okay in af ew months...it was just the age of 16 17 that cut me deep cuz htose were some awsome years....i donno why this happened it was like it was already voer and this was jsut ap usher or somethign if you know what i mean..so yeah... =-( i donno mayeb if iget mr efeelings out ill post..by the way..were u guys joking when u wanted pics..if not what kind... ill show you all what a stupid lieing ** she looks like just oh my gosh... I JUST FEEL LIKE going ot her house and apologizing to her....and jsut making htigns up...and ican rpretend nothings happened idonno itso nyl been alil while wihtout her.. i dont like this at all i really dont like this... __________________ You say go I say what? You say go. Then I'm gone...Don't you wish you had a BMW? Last edited by Clint; 03-15-2007 at 08:38 AM.

03-12-2007, 10:50 PM	#48 (permalink)
GregR1 ... Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 2,308	good god, dude, learn to write! you're 18 already, not 5. and yeah, pics of the skank, please!

03-12-2007, 10:58 PM	#49 (permalink)
bmwfanatic In Training Join Date: Mar 2007 Bike: Im working on a bike Location: i live in michigan...the land of lakes..no great lake state... thats it.. Posts: 137	sorry...ill look for some though __________________ You say go I say what? You say go. Then I'm gone...Don't you wish you had a BMW?

03-12-2007, 11:01 PM	#50 (permalink)
GregR1 ... Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 2,308	furthermore, get over it. women play mind-games all the time, too, so her saying she loves you was just another one of them (and there's gonna be plenty more in the future). dude, she's 18! legal crumpet but surely not emotionally stable. then again, you don't seem all that stable today either, so forget her and your 'friend' and focus on something else for the next 2 weeks. here's a few ideas: - rebuild the engine in your car - learn a new language - set up an RRSP and learn how to control it - hop on your (pedal) bike and get your endurance up to be able to do a 100-mile ride - compare the timeline and history of these 3 american icons and enlighten us: Fender, Gibson, Harley-Davidson Last edited by GregR1; 03-12-2007 at 11:06 PM.

03-12-2007, 11:07 PM	#51 (permalink)
ORBrit Fifth gear streak Join Date: Oct 2006 Bike: 2007 Suzuki Boulevard S50, 2007 Suzuki Bandit 1250S Location: Eugene, OR Posts: 1,316	All of us older folks - we've all been through it and we survived - and learned from it too. It seems like your world just collapsed right now and it seems like no one cares but you'll just have to take each day as it comes. You're better off without her - why didn't you just leave her in Ohio?! You should never have driven her home dude. You'll get over it - it'll take time. My advice for now - definitely DO NOT go out and buy a motorcycle in your current mental/emotional state. Good luck. __________________

03-12-2007, 11:17 PM	#52 (permalink)
bmwfanatic In Training Join Date: Mar 2007 Bike: Im working on a bike Location: i live in michigan...the land of lakes..no great lake state... thats it.. Posts: 137	okay...this is her with her little brother....annoying as hell...anyway im behind the camera..you guys will have plenty of time to see me...anyway yeah...this was her a while ago.. anyway ya..not too long though.... Attached Thumbnails __________________ You say go I say what? You say go. Then I'm gone...Don't you wish you had a BMW?

03-12-2007, 11:23 PM	#53 (permalink)
LCA_koolaid37 Eternal Vigilante Join Date: Sep 2006 Bike: 2001 VZ800 Location: MO Posts: 1,297	Dude, if you're 18 and have been in a relationship with someone for 6 years, then you should thank her for messing around with your friend. Being in a relationship from 12 to 18 years old is completely unhealthy, in my opinion. Furthermore, she has been unfaithful to you and hasn't cared for you enough to tell of her transgressions. Kick her to the curb... then go get your head checked. Edited to Add: The brutal facts of American life are that one should get used to infidelity. From the statistics my Psychology professor gave me, the infidelity rate in America is about 50% and the demographic with the greatest risk to be unfaithful is young, newly wed females. Last edited by LCA_koolaid37; 03-12-2007 at 11:26 PM.

03-12-2007, 11:28 PM	#55 (permalink)
bmwfanatic In Training Join Date: Mar 2007 Bike: Im working on a bike Location: i live in michigan...the land of lakes..no great lake state... thats it.. Posts: 137	well lots of time to mes around now....lots of time ...im watching borat and laughing my balls off though... i know im young and stupid??but what can i do?just live and learn..welll ya.. __________________ You say go I say what? You say go. Then I'm gone...Don't you wish you had a BMW?

03-12-2007, 11:28 PM	#56 (permalink)
GregR1 ... Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 2,308	go watch "Harley Davidson And The Marlboro Man"

03-12-2007, 11:32 PM	#57 (permalink)
bmwfanatic In Training Join Date: Mar 2007 Bike: Im working on a bike Location: i live in michigan...the land of lakes..no great lake state... thats it.. Posts: 137	haha okay..donno if ur serious but if you are..il check it out __________________ You say go I say what? You say go. Then I'm gone...Don't you wish you had a BMW?

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03-12-2007, 11:32 PM	#58 (permalink)
GregR1 ... Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 2,308	"My old man used to tell me before he left this s hitty world Never chase buses or women - you always get left behind" - The Marlboro Man

03-12-2007, 11:34 PM	#59 (permalink)
bmwfanatic In Training Join Date: Mar 2007 Bike: Im working on a bike Location: i live in michigan...the land of lakes..no great lake state... thats it.. Posts: 137	HAHAHAHA thats awsome __________________ You say go I say what? You say go. Then I'm gone...Don't you wish you had a BMW?